A major American university spent a great deal of money to research what are the most influential forces upon a person’s life. The report concluded that the home is the most influential force that makes a person what he is – primarily the influence of the father.
If we want to make an impact upon the lives of our children, then we must realize that what we are is just as important as what we say. If there are inconsistencies, if there are double standards in our lives, then our children will most probably react and rebel against our leadership.
Paul says that we are to speak the truth “in love” (Ephesians 4:15). You might be the greatest proclaimer of truth to your children; but if they do not believe that you love them, they will walk away from the truth. Someone has said, “Truth without relationship leads to rejection. Rules without relationship leads to rebellion.”
Jesus said, “But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness…” (Matthew 6:33). Seeking first the kingdom of God has to do with our knowledge and understanding of the Scriptures – but that needs to be balanced. Our quest for truth needs to be accompanied by a “…hunger and thirst after righteousness” (Matthew 5:6). Do you have that insatiable appetite for Christ-like character?
Three pastors were discussing which translations of the Bible they enjoyed the most. One of the men said, “My father’s translation is the best.” The others asked what translation of the Bible his father had worked on. He responded: “My father translated the Bible into life and it’s the most effective version I’ve ever seen!”
Next to the supernatural work of God in a person’s life, the family – and primarily the influence of the father – is the most powerful force that makes a person what he is.
I thank God for the memory of my own father who has made the greatest single impact upon my life for Jesus Christ. I thank God for his example.
Ron Hamilton wrote the following words to the children’s song:
Your walk talks and your talk talks;
But your walk talks louder than your talk talks.
You cannot hide what’s inside; It’s sure to come out.
Your words may whisper but your actions shout!
Morris Hull
Home Life Ministries
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